Ada, I pray you see this. (A poem from Mr. Best to you)
That I May Breathe Your Name { For Ada Valerie }
I've sailed from the Atlantic Ocean to Niger River,
Now standing on the green hill of your ripe breast
That I may breathe the surfs from the shore of your name,
To breathe the breath of our dead in the forests of your arms.
And when dawn hangs her pant on the flowers of your navel,
I'll take a flute and weave songs of maiden moon for you,
Songs as gentle as the whispers of the morning doves,
For ages have I longed to breathe your name, Ada Valerie.
MCK
I've sailed from the Atlantic Ocean to Niger River,
Now standing on the green hill of your ripe breast
That I may breathe the surfs from the shore of your name,
To breathe the breath of our dead in the forests of your arms.
And when dawn hangs her pant on the flowers of your navel,
I'll take a flute and weave songs of maiden moon for you,
Songs as gentle as the whispers of the morning doves,
For ages have I longed to breathe your name, Ada Valerie.
MCK
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KONJI MASTER said...
are harmful. As in other emotions, excessiveness in love can impede the lover from seeing a broader perspective. Even normal cases of romantic love tend to create
a narrow temporal perspective that focuses on the beloved and is often oblivious to other considerations.
Accordingly, it has been argued that it is impossible to love and be wise and that the true opposite of love is justice. Little wonder then that, as Stevie Wonder puts it, "All in love is fair."
Although it is difficult to define what constitutes excessiveness in love, characterizing love as "too much" implies that some damage has been done-either to the lover or the beloved. When intense love
blinds our sight and makes us act
improperly, people may say that such intense love is too much. A remark such as, "I couldn't help it, I was madly in love with her," indicates that sometimes love can be excessive.
Loving too much can be problematic when it hurts the lover, which typically occurs in the long term. The lover's intense love might be excessive in the sense that it prevents her from realizing the true nature of their relationship. For example, her intense love might prevent her from noticing, or at least admitting, that his attitude toward her is
humiliating or that their relationship has very little chance of surviving in the long term. Hence, It is still possible to criticize someone's intense love on the grounds that such intensity prevents him from seeing his
partner's faults or from recognizing that he could choose another partner who might make him happier and more satisfied in the
longer run. For this reason, classical art often depicts the God of love Cupid as blind indicating that lovers are blind to the faults
or the unsuitability of the one they love.
Lovers may also feel that they love too much when they believe that their beloveds do not love them to the same extent. When a lover feels that she gives more than she
gets, she will feel that she loves her partner too much. If she feels that she gets more or less what she gives, the feeling of loving too
much is unlikely to arise. Needless to say, love should not be a mechanical calculation of what we give and get, but where there is
a profound lack of reciprocity, it is natural to feel one is loving too much.
People who love too much often keep investing in a relationship that has no chance of surviving as their beloved does not love them to the same extent.