Love and Matters of the Heart with Baby Blinks

Firstly, I must start by apologizing for my absence all these while. It was really unavoidable. Here is a mail from a reader...I hope we proffer solutions to her problems by advising her.
Unedited Mail: 
Dear Blinks,
I need your help and please dont blame me because I really love this guy that was why we took the nude pictures while he was making love to me in his place and so I did't think anything is bad about it.
He has been taking care of me in every way for the past two years and each time he tries to take my pic when am not putting on clothes I don't allow it until last month when I spend weekend in his place.

While we were busy in bed he brought out his phone and took pictures of him on top me. I was shy but had to allow him.
When we were done, I came down from the bed and he took two more photos of me.
I didn't complain because I love him but I told him to change the password on his phone so that his friends or any other person wont see the photos, because I was not wearing anything at all. He agreed and even changed his password before I left his place that Saturday.
But since that day he has been acting funny, not calling me for a whole day, and even when I call he will say he is busy and all that. I complained to his sister on phone and she promised to talk to him but it got worse.
Now, just last week he said he can't continue with me again that I'm not free with him. How else should I be free with him? I know that I dont make love with him the way he wants but that is cos we are not married.
My nudé photos are in his phones and he said I should not come to his place again.
Please what should I do? I still love him.

Blinks Opinion: Honestly, my hands are tied, having pleaded with me not to blame you for sending your nudes. I will not. Then, I don't also know where to start from advising you. Maybe G.M.A readers will help.

Send in your relationship problems to 
blinksgistmeansu@gmail.com
or gistmeansu@gmail.com

Comments

Paddy said…
Hang urself simple
Unknown said…
What exactly do you want us to tell you? To pray that he does not release the pictures or what? Whatever we have to tell you has to start by blaming you for being stupid. You told him to change the password to his phone and so what? Does it change anything?
Anonymous said…
Send me ur nude pictures & expect an advice larzybone2007@yahoo.com
K-SLIM said…
Chai!!! Ladies and nude pics...what advice do you need? How 2 go 2 his hauz and delete your nude pics 4rm his fone or how 2 get him love you again... #PEACE#
Anonymous said…
Sweety go to his hus nd beg him dat u are very sorry even if u havent don anytin to him.try nd persuade him if possible make love wit him nd try nd get his fone so u cld delete ur nude pix frM his fone if nt men are devilish dey can do anytin.
Anonymous said…
Women ar stupid, dey can snap anything

KONJI MASTER said...
Anonymous said…
Babe just learn from ur mistakes and move on with ur life and pray he doesn't publish dos pix of urs ok?
henry nwankwo said…
Blinks dis ? Goes to yu and wht she needs from yu is absolutly solution. So no xcus.just answer her. Else yu not qaulified 4 dis job.blinks prove ur mettle
henry nwankwo said…
Buh let me ask dis.is any guy disclosin a girls nude just cos dey had small isue a wise and responsible dude!?
Anonymous said…
Blinks,always runnin away 4rm dropping advice nd leavin it 4 d readers..u really tink u'r fit 4 dis job ? dnt fnk so!

@K_slim lol,dilitn d pix 4rm d fone prolly wnt hlp as he might hav copies in his system or elsewhr so babe,ndo!d deed has been done,tlk 2 ur man,he has 2 hv a reason 4 actin up l8ly.
Anonymous said…
try wteva u cn 2 get rid ov doz pictures b4 its 2 l8
Unknown said…
I think Blinks has a reasonable excuse, besides there is notin to advise in this case
Anonymous said…
But girls dey try shaa o. Babe, u were stupid earlier. And like u said, u r not married to him. So why let him snap u nude. He sees u nude in bed. What else does he need ur nude pictures for? Trust me that guy doesn't love u. U r nothing but a sex object to him. Nothing less than those porn girls u see on waptrick XXX corner. Brace up urself. Look for a way to erase the pics. Become more responsible and a responsible guy will come ur way. And for the guy, he is a coward. Simple... I rest my Case. #Queen Empress# In the house. Peace.
Anonymous said…
Well what I have to see is...u free dat guy if u r tinkin on how to delet it de pics den no dat u t westin ur time bcos he might have put it in a laptpp or send it in anoda phone...so fashi dat tin.life goes on..anytin he dos wit it,let him bear in mind dat one gud turn deservs anoda..anoda prsn will do him day one wy pass dis one..simple
..still me kplus if u like call me on dis 08022331377.make I observe and resing u well..notin day happen
.taaaaa
Unknown said…
Send more to him
KenDiva! said…
Most times our too much sense of morals as Africans cloud our thinking... (Not dat i support tho) buh hey deres no biggy in letting someone u love have a nude pic of u (esp if sure so sexy) it actually promotes intimacy! Now that u've broken up wit him or vice versa...simply go to him and tell him u come as just a friend notin more, tell him u want to have a lil talk... His response depends on ur approach! Like u said he took care of u for two yrs! U Even know his sis! Meen dis guy is responsible, so I bet he'll listen...tell him u are just bothered about ur nudes on his phone, to ur surprise he might not have it...if he still dose tell him u feel insecure about it. And since in d real sense of it u actually didn't offend him(he broke up cos he felt u not satisfying his own needs which u admitted by say u don't cos or not Married)there actually is no reason for him to spread d pic...if he really did cared for u he'll do as u plead and if dis dosent work or u still feel uncomfortable gal go make friends wit his new babe (if he already has)she'll do d work! And if u really still love him den u should be ready to do it all! y give him half of u when he has done his best for two yrs?! And on secound thought he might still love u buh is angry wit u dat after two yrs u cant trust him wit ur nudes! Well I'm out on words... Hope dis helps... Just know approach matters in dis and if u sit and think there are many ways to dis issh...goodluck!

Unknown said…
Kendiva, I am sorry to say that your comment is the dumbest comment this blog has ever recorded. Did I hear you say sharing nudes increase intimacy? Awww... You are more dumb dan I thought. I mean, how can you entrust something as delicate as your nude to somebody all in the name of love? People like you should be banned from airing your opinions. They are threats to humanity.
KenDiva! said…
Lmao! Smart ass shola is dat d only part of my dumb comment dat gets to u? Maybe ure so smart after all... This is why I said our sense of morals as Africans cloud our judgments...I don advice my own u do ur own...afterall the blog says help solve probz not 'judge' probz... Plus everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion DAT wat mine! Leave ur smart ass self out of it... Its left for d babe in question to pick wats smart out of it and leave d dumb ones...#so much for Maturity!
Unknown said…
Oga I strongly disagree with you oo
Anonymous said…
Girls are so stupid, why do post nude for a boy that is not married to you? Did they use charm on them? Giving birth a female child is scary

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