Please advice me...is my marraige normal?


I got married in 2008 to a military man and we have not lived together up to a month at a stretch except twice when I had my babies and was on maternity leave. He is always being transferred from one state to the other. I am a banker and can't keep moving with him because I need to keep my job and also be independent. Please I need to know if there are other families in my shoes.

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Kizzy Psych said…
Babe, d marraige is normal just make sure dat it dznt cuz prob for una
26 May 2013 at 19:54
Anonymous said…
Sweetheart welcome to reality. Many people are in your shoes. It's not the best but since this is your case, let him visit each time he can. It will not be like leaving together but it will go a long way.
26 May 2013 at 19:59
Kizzy Psych said…
Ur case is even beta sef, abeg just take it easy on urself
26 May 2013 at 20:00
Bobby Ezubelu pol sci said…
Ur case beta sÉlf just take am easy
26 May 2013 at 20:59
Unknown said…
Be patient..pol.sci
26 May 2013 at 22:40
Unknown said…
Your not the only one,...some marriages are like that.
26 May 2013 at 23:23
Private User said…
As your husband is a military man, and he's been posted to several places that makes you relocate always and as a banker, you have fear abouty your job.
27 May 2013 at 00:22
Private User said…
As your husband is a military man, and he's been posted to several places that makes you relocate always and as a banker, you have fear about your job.
27 May 2013 at 00:22
Private User said…
Such a case is frequent in most newly married couples. It is understandable that most time either of the couple may not be comfort in such marriage as yours is.
Your husband as a military man [a soldier], not only serves his country but also serves you and the family. Most women married to soldiers encounters problem like this and there are always solution to it.
Since your husband not only serve the state but also the family, as a wife you need to be there for him always. Your work is to comfort him cos him job is not life assuring. He could lose a life at anytime. Never worry about your work state in so far as you have a job at hand and your husband.
Since both couple are one, always try to tell him your problem and difficulties and harbour no resentments against him. When you share your problems and difficulties, I believe it's solved. Always be a faithful wife.

Chuma Umenze
Political Science Dept
ANSU Igbariam
27 May 2013 at 00:37
Anonymous said…
I tink u shld go and ask ur God 4 solution here is nt solution ground
27 May 2013 at 04:12
Unknown said…
You just need to keep faith.
27 May 2013 at 07:27
Anonymous said…
Abadom joy 300l pray very well
27 May 2013 at 11:25
Unknown said…
Most marriages are meant to experience hard times before the good ones so keep faith and pray always.
27 May 2013 at 15:36
Unknown said…
Never mind, things will improve
27 May 2013 at 22:09
okoye blessing pol sci said…
Kip praying 2 GOD Α̲̅Ω̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ hv faith it shall be well
27 May 2013 at 23:21
Unknown said…
By the way, I hope you have not been cheating on him during his absence?
28 May 2013 at 06:23
Unknown said…
Because that will make you wrong on your own part.
28 May 2013 at 15:10
Mr. Dulocs said…
de tin is dis, your marriage is k thou nt balanced bt u hve 2 endure it. Your prob nw is undastndn n agreement. U nid 2 agree wit him on d terms dat u wil nt b movin wit hm bt he must be cmin bck hme at interval 2 vist d family.
28 May 2013 at 19:22
Mr. Dulocs said…
it tkes undastndn 4 dem 2 stick 2geda
28 May 2013 at 19:25
Unknown said…
Dat will bacome distant marriage@Mr Dulocs....dat will give way for temptation on both parties..
28 May 2013 at 22:14
Unknown said…
How many successful distant marriages have you seen?
29 May 2013 at 08:31
Kizzy Psych said…
Stanfirm God is watching ur marriage
29 May 2013 at 17:16
Kizzy Psych said…
Dnt even tink of breaking up cuz d bible states dat on only d grounds of infidelity shall a couple separate
29 May 2013 at 17:17
Kizzy Psych said…
Dats ur cross carry it dear
29 May 2013 at 17:17
Kizzy Psych said…
ife niine ka ga adi mma ooo
29 May 2013 at 17:18
Private User said…
Kizzy, is that what you'd tell your wife or sister when she has similar problem?
30 May 2013 at 12:01
Private User said…
Truly, everything will be alright
31 May 2013 at 16:13
valentineBiG said…
Dear...i just hope my contribution and my opinion can serve you better in d rite decision to make in life..u got a nice family buh as you said you have to put God first in anything u thinks towards ur husband,wot you just nid is to pray for ur husband to com back through transfer frm d service wia he is serving or you relocate frm wia you are staying to wia your husband lives..buh always call ur husband to tell him how much you loves him..
1 June 2013 at 23:04
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