Love and Relationship Matters with Baby Blinks

*Unedited mail
Blinks,there is this guy I like so much,  but he iz dating sm1 who used to be my friend. He tells me he lyks me but cant date me. Then wen i insisted he said we can be friends with benefits....i guess u knw wat i mean. Blinks please what should I ndo? I have a bf shaa, but we are always having one problem or the other. Should I accept this guys offer and hope with time all will go well?
Blinks Opinion: First of all, put yourself in the other girls situation. Your boyfriend having good time with someone who used to be your friend. Its very bad to say NO to it. Its is a free world, and nobody is saying that you should not love, but one has to be wise. Had it been it were to be guy, you will tell the whole world that all men are the same and that your BF is a great cheat. What about you? Are you faithful? My dear, just be contempted with what you have.

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Unknown said…
I don't like commenting on any post abt love cos 4 me dat thing na illusion inshort z doesn't exist I advice anyone who care 2 listen 2 free that thing called love were papa fit use e wife children do juju were again love wan exist
22 December 2013 at 01:19
Unknown said…
Ogoo I strongly disagree wit u luv do exist yes! U don't hv to generalize if t doesn't wok 4 u dia r so many pple out dia who can give testimonies of luv.I knw luv sucks n stings sum tyms buh its nt enof rxn 4 u to say t doesn't exist
22 December 2013 at 09:02
i ChoPtas Not said…
The hand writing on the wall is so glaring... if you have gat a keen sight, you on ur own can answer this question ur self.... N:B; Love is unconditional.. Be Wise Please.....Yes!....@i_ChoPtas_Not
22 December 2013 at 09:14
Mantisa said…
Luv works 4 doz wu are patient enough to let it grow and a few who can endure. Ogoo is jst unfortunate dat it has ne a favored him|her. Besides, it dependz on ur expectations....maybe u tink it shuld be like india films? No, luv hurts and heals too. Plz 4give ur father 4 using ur broda for rituals.
22 December 2013 at 09:22
Unknown said…
Don't even knw weda ur tawkin abt guy or girl u jst kip changin it anyway dts by d way.cumin to ur mail mayb u jst woke up 4rm d rong syd of d bed if nt u won't hv sent dz.hw can u b askin 4 our ideas wit such a cheap n slamminous write up. in CHINWETALU AGU's voice :imagine d conconbility, if u wia to b dishe or dust off lyk dz hw wil u feel?.z ur type dt gear d change of mind set n mentality of pple,if u cari out dz ur crude randy malicious act of urz,.. u want to tel me dt u wont leave dis guy believin dt luv doesn't exist.stp increasin d ministry of pple dt tag d word luv impossible#am so proud of ma boo shaa xpect u to do dsm
22 December 2013 at 09:43
merit said…
I tink dat girl need to calm down nd make her relationship work out fine. Cus relationship re built
22 December 2013 at 09:55
NONI said…
Hmmmmm.... dis one na boi frnd snatcher... if u ar avin problem wit ur boi frnd go nd sort tins out wit him... u ar jst seein d right side of dat ur frnds boi frnd he might b worse dan ur bf....
22 December 2013 at 10:04
Unknown said…
I tink u shld jst settle d scores u have with u bf,i dont buy d idea of being fwnds wit benefit wit a guy,not to talk of a guy dat already has a gf...So be wise,make tins ryt wit ur bf
22 December 2013 at 10:41
K-SLIM said…
Baby you have heard it all...they have said it all...if you can see the good in your frnds bf,den try †Φ spot the good in your own bf...non in this life is perfect,everyone has his/her downside so just try to live with your bfs flaws,remember your not perfect cos if you are you wunt be considering cheating on sum1 you love...my advice “if you love your BF,stick to him and build him into the man you want him to become” #PEACE#
22 December 2013 at 11:15
Pberry said…
Girl,be contented joor.
22 December 2013 at 11:33
Unknown said…
Mantisa u are a big fool
Bastard
22 December 2013 at 14:24
Unknown said…
If u like u disagree if u like no disagree I hv made my point clear any thing that will make disrespect ur parent,as AS marry anoda AS and endup giving birth 2 unhealthy kids,disrespect God that thing can't be love. devil designed it to look like love.
I will not marry for love and for those thinking that I hv am unfortunate am not cos I hv never been in a relationship but I hear ppl stories the all end in the way I keep a lot of friends and am not losing anything no sleepless nite no heartbreak cme join me and free ur self from that illusion
22 December 2013 at 14:36
Chi said…
Ppl ve broken my heart nd i ve broken ppl's heart so no hard feelings lmao
22 December 2013 at 15:03
SAGACIOUS said…
Stick to ur guy babe dat guy u talked abt will never have respect 4 u if. He eventually gets wot he wants I tell u dat relationship will sore n again his GF if na u how u go feel
22 December 2013 at 17:01
Mantisa said…
It hz nat goten 2 dat naa, I just advisd u
22 December 2013 at 17:09
Unknown said…
Mantisa go nd advice ur father idiot may nah ur papa use ur broda do ritual bag of dirt
22 December 2013 at 17:39
Rusty said…
Ds isn't Love,it is stupidity. Y can't you get anoda man since u aren't contented wt ur boy lover? Y anoda person's own? Babe,heal ur r/shp nd let dat girl's own be.
23 December 2013 at 11:03
Anonymous said…
Nnaa eh d fact is dah uv always wntd dah guy evn b4 he said he likes u.....dahz y u jst dnt wnt 2 stay wit ur BF.....abeg put urself in ur frnds shoe b4 actn
23 December 2013 at 20:36
i ChoPtas Not said…
i found this piece some where and deemed it wise i shared with you sequel to the advice you seeked ..... i hope it will help u and others that are in similar situation.....; "No matter how much you love someone, sometimes
the best thing to do is the HARDEST thing to do. Don't
STAY where you're not LOVED and APPRECIATED just
because you love that person and sometimes we do
love the wrong people. So find the GOOD in GOODBYE,
LET GO and MOVE ON. You
deserve someone better..." God Bless you all.....Yes!..@i_ChoPtas_Not
24 December 2013 at 12:49
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