Love and Matters of the Heart with Chinelo Udeolisa

Hello, welcome to this weeks edition of L.R.M! Today I have a message from a proud gay G.M.A reader. Amazing right? Calm down and read, lets try to understand him. Your advice would be appreciated.
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I'm Ifeanyi Ekemezie by name. I dont know if you gonna post this, because I'm a gay man but I reside in the US anyway, and I follow ur posts. I broke up with the guy I was with for 4 years in February. I was not a good person during most of the relationship, i cheated, I took advantage, i used, i was angry. He was very sensible and calm, caring, I thought he deserved someone who wasn’t me due to, I don’t know, bottled up anger and self loathing I guess. It finally came to the crunch in February, now he’s met somebody more fun, more outgoing, more social, happier, and I’m being pointed and laughed at for my past, crazy behaviour. I’m trying to come to terms with the pain, I was genuinely loved but I pushed it away. Now i want him to comfort me as he did for a long time, but with reason, he now dislikes me intensely, and as difficult as it is to not cling on to I have to say I feel like i’ve made some terrible choices in the relationship. It wasn’t based on much but emotion and loneliness I guess. The thought of couple-dom and intimacy frightens me, that dominance, that ‘never let me go’ that you must always be here thing that some people adore. He has moved on, but I still love him and want him back. What do I do?

Nelly's Opinion: I was shocked when you requested your identity be known (That you don't mind). Maybe because you reside in America. Here in Nigeria gays don't come out open because it is prohibited. That does not mean I will not treat your case with my readers. So In this case I really believe that your heart ruled your head. I think you need prayers for God to deliver you from the yoke of SATAN!  Hang around to see what my readers have for you in addition.

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