Love and Matters of the Heart with Chinelo Udeolisa

Hope you guys had a splendid night? Thanks a lot for stopping over ones more. Today on Matters of the Heart, we would be treating another 'jaw-breaking' issue. This time, I got confused that I did not even have an advise to render. But I trust you guys.

*Unedited message*
My name is Kuje. I'm in love with an Igbo gal Uche. I love this girl so much. But the thing there is that she is suspecting me and her friend Olaino. What she doesn't know is that I'm related to Olaino. I went to Uche s parents and introduced myself to them as 'would be' suitor. They accepted me. The girl claim to love me and depletes my finances but my problem is dat she is still in University and I am working but from sources close to me she is just a loose girl on campus but she denies it. Although she claim to have a boyfriend only but I refuse to agree. What do I do? Do I leave the girl or do I continue to and hope that things turn around?
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Comments

Unknown said…
Dear Kuje, should I say that you started your own problem by having an affair with an Igbo girl. Does it mean that yoruba girls have finned in this world? They are after money and u know very well that they she proberbly is flirting arround for money. I just have one thing to tell you. Kpeleee
Anonymous said…
Guy i will advice u to get another babe but still tell her, she is ur one n only .see guy no dul na game of brain al unibabe are asha...if u put am "wo" na u sabi apply wisdom my guy (Eminoni)
Baby Oku said…
@Emimoni, na u be ashawo. See your mouth like ashawo. Your sister and entire generation na ashawo. Idiot. Fine boy no moni. Smh mtchew.
Cynthia said…
Did you say your name is Damilola or what? Whatever. Why stick your nose around Igbo's when you know they are good for nothing.
Guess what, I envy ur life as a yoruba girls.lolz. Use the door bitch
Unknown said…
There is no trust in the relationship. Both of you are suspicious of each oda. And suspicion bringeth more suspicion.
Edet was here
kelvin in zamfara said…
Guy u r dating this girl, giving her money and she's still fucking around.. Broda frm a guy to u eh! Step ur game up... Leave d girl... Get a girlfriend outside d circle of university. Find a lady within ur class zone..... Cuz she will keep up @ it.... She's justa greedy nd selfish chick
Chinelo udeolisa said…
Kelvin i respect your opinion.thank you
Anonymous said…
Jst measure the love she has for you, if you realise is
increasing jst continue & if its decreasing still bear it. Don't xpect love in return my brother.
Anonymous said…
Hw r u sure d pple tellin u tins abt ha r nt lyin? Mayb der r jst tryin 2 destroy ur relatnship. If u wnt 2 react den c tins 4 ursef 1st bc d pple tellin u tins abt ha myt b lyin or nt.
Anonymous said…
Guy mayb u ar paranoid y nt trust d gal nd beliv she s nt slpin arnd?
Anonymous said…
Ask us again. Jealous nigga
Unknown said…
Kuje,my advice z dat u shldnt jst blive wat pple say,try findn out d truth urself nd knw wat u wld do abt it,if its sumtin u can't handle den u can opt out but remember"D DEVIL YOU KNW IS BETA DAN D ANGEL YOU DON'T KNW
Anonymous said…
Leave the girl dear. There is no trust in that relationship. The sole aim of having a relationship is marriage and you cannot marry who you do not trust.

KONJI MASTER said
Anonymous said…
Please Damilola learn how to spell first before u go talkin about #IgboGirls. Only stupid people restrict a particular behaviour to a particular tribe. Dont tell me u are stupid
Anonymous said…
Find your way and #Run
Anonymous said…
To be honest i dont even see any "relationship" between d both of u. Both of u are just playin wit d word #Love. U seem to be very confused, first u talk of her not trustin u & suspectin u, then u talk of suspectin her too. Wetin?. (Ben)
OJ said…
Its just about the couple sitting down and settling their differences. The guy should sit out and thrash out their differences and build their trust. Trust is a vital ingredient needed in every relationship. Kuje mend your relationship. Uche mellow down in your laisser faire attitude. Now is still early to make or mar their love affaair
Vince Viid add m-e29811CC7 said…
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Just stop being confused, u knw ђã†̥ Ʊr̲̅ actual problem is, simply face it! I remain Vinchi vincent!
Anonymous said…
Just follow ur heart
henry nwankwo economics said…
wen it comes to a relationship. no body is a saint. dude if yu wana continue. just belive dat norin is goin on and proceed.cos wen yu lookin for somtin yu must definitely seeeeeee one. am telling out of experience

Chinelo udeolisa said…
Thanks dear
unique vivi masscomm said…
My dear kuji 3 tins i undastnd frm dis post is dat u guys ve many ups and down,secondly u hardly beleive dat she is cheating on you, lastly is dat u dont knw hw to say it all cos is very heavy in ur mind dats y u cant say it all.....
Bt my dear for ur gf to be suspecting u is normal, she is just being jealous. Wen ur girl is nt jealous dat shows dat she doesnt care.
U said dat she told u dat she had a bf in school and u ve already meet her parent and dey accept u, my question dia is did d girl agree? if so y should she be bold enough to tell u dat she had a bf at skul.
Next on d line is dat a very close source is telling you, who do u think dat source is? Is dat source ur enemy or frnd? My dear pls dnt beleive evrytin u heard some re just to knock u out and enta. like dey said "seeing is beleving" she is loose dat it true according to dem bt ve u confirmed it urself. My dear if u love ur gf love her weak point nt her strongest point.
bt if u find out dat she is truly wat dey speak of her,call nd tell her why u need to call it off;den coming to d area of whre u say dat she depletes your finances,pls pls pls is not gud for ladies to demand so much,try and find a way to cut down her excesses,(habit is a second nature)(in my opinion i think dat"ladies are supposed to be seen and not heard"i . forget to drop dis last message for u(A fake friend is worse than a declared enemy)....love is all abt loving some1 bad side more dan ha gud side. Dats my opinion
mark-anthony foundation said…
Love is an optical illusion...it doesn't exist!
mc deprince said…
Dis ma advice,dnt be in a hurry 2 end a relationship u wud forget abt ur lover.bt if u believe nd knw she is cheating on u,I guess d relationship is nt working so let her go
Chinelo udeolisa said…
Vivi ur opinion is wooow,thank you very much
4tune said…
Damilola dy rush mak she yab igbo gals,nw she don gbagaun.ODE
Unknown said…
I still dey jor. U tink say I done run. Dey say d best answer to a fool is silence
helen said…
Damilola u come from a dirty tribe. See ur life. If I were u, I cannot come out proudly as yoruba. Dey are so dirty.
Anonymous said…
hw dare u call Yoruba dirty? igbo neet pass come carry award.
jolli master said…
hei bro my advice goez lyk dz since u hv met d parents dey agreed wt abt d girl hv she agreed nd hv u piple eva discusd abt her gf...

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