Love and Matters of the Heart with Chinelo Udeolisa

Hi pals, You guys are sweet. I got your well wishes, as a matter of fact, it aided my fast recovery. Mum is super cool too. Its well.
I must confess that you guys contribution to last weeks love issue was superb. You deserve a big thumbs up! Love you guys *winks* Now lets treat today's problem.

*Unedited message*

Nelly, I have been in multiple relationships that turned out I was in love with girls who didn't love me in the same way. Most recently I had a wonderful friendship with a 100 level babe who is 19; we played together, and spent a lot of our free time together. After 2 months of this I expressed my feelings for her for which I received the usual reply "I only love you as a friend."
Honestly, I've heard that line so many times I once considered becoming a reverend father.



NELLY's Opinion: Actually, I think you probably need to try harder and be prayerful too. Your case made me run short of words. I hope my wonderful readers would help you out.

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Comments

Paddy said…
Have you heard of this yoruba charm 'torch and follow'? I think you need it at this point. ndo
30 August 2013 at 09:18
Anonymous said…
Y nat buy a nadbook for toasting babes. i tink u are just a learner dats why u kip missing it. dia must be a way u are noty doing it right. learn bro, no dey dell

KONJI MASTER said
30 August 2013 at 10:14
Unknown said…
Well, every body must not have a girl, imagine even for Igbacamp you still find it difficult to have a girl, guy my advice to you is to go and enter Catholic Seminary.
30 August 2013 at 10:40
Anonymous said…
My dear,,,just know dat d person isn't meant 4 u,,,,if dat perfect person comes,I bet u,she'll b all urs *smiles*
30 August 2013 at 11:24
sophiakansy said…
Well not everyone is lucky with this existence of thing called love and maybe you are one of them buh it shouldn't make you give up.just be patient nd prayerful and when the right one comes you will know and do not try to force yourself into it if not you will regret,do not go into a relationship with pity.just believe that you will be loved back.Goodluck
30 August 2013 at 11:24
SOMBODY said…
Non of you have given me a satisfactory answers oo. Including you Nelly
30 August 2013 at 11:31
vinchi da code said…
Hmmm....
This is really a pathetic situation!
I sincerly think u should go online n get tips of how 2 talk to people, ladies especially! I think this cud help. For crying out loud u too r human, no matter hw horrorful u may look.
Dnt give up jst yet, knw wats good 4 u n go for It!
30 August 2013 at 11:32
Anonymous said…
Hehehehehe.....funny anyway but u are not a failure until u begin to c urself as one....wz once in ur shoe but I didn't gv up.... Now am in a relationshp I can term d best one can eva hv....kip tryn, at d rite tym d rite pesin mst say I do.... Dubem(Snr Man)
30 August 2013 at 12:09
unique vivi masscomm said…
my dear such is life bt one tin i noticed is anytym u receive dat sentence "I only love you as a friend." u quit. my dear dia is a say dat goes lyk dis " winners neva quit and quitters neva win" so remain steadfast for what u want bt be focus on ur education. dat she love u as a frnd dnt mean she cant date. bt u playin wit ha, spending alot of tym wit ha is d mistake u made. she has seen u as a frnd and also as a broda. try ur luck once more bt dis tym if she say no try and knw ha reason. goodluck dear.
30 August 2013 at 12:45
Chinelo udeolisa said…
Lolz zodi,you really mean he should enter catholic seminary?
30 August 2013 at 13:17
Chinelo udeolisa said…
Dear,the aim of this column is to throw up our questions and get answers from our intelligent readers.i'm sure that before ends you will get a satisfactory answer.thank you.
30 August 2013 at 13:28
Chinelo udeolisa said…
Unique you are one of our intelligent readers.thank you.
30 August 2013 at 13:45
Unknown said…
Vivi daalu. I have long waited to see your response to this. Honestly, winners rarely quit. It is a policy that I always adopt and it has kept me going. The young man failed to understand that a NO could mean 'try harder'. Lolz. Sounds funny but that's my opinion. Secondly, dis I hear you talk of enrolling into the seminary because you were numerous times rejected by girls? Ndo to you. Maybe you want to end up gay.*I was not here at atll*
30 August 2013 at 14:35
Ada said…
Lolz @ Mr best...
30 August 2013 at 14:50
Ada said…
I love dis blog.... Nelo thumbs up.. Mr best dalukwa... No comment for me on dis matter
30 August 2013 at 14:53
Unknown said…
Ada you funny pass Mr. Ibu
30 August 2013 at 15:30
Anonymous said…
Well my dear, I must say, you are going through a lot, and I know how it feels, but my dear, settling for the opppsite is not the answer. The devil is trying to capture your soul, once you try that, you have sold it free to him. That she din't end up with you, if you must know, she lost, because for you to share it on the media, you truly care. And real men that truly love are rare. So don't worry, your miss right will come to you. But e no mean say you no go play your part ooooo, always make the move, for you are de man. Becoming a gay is not an option baby boy.
30 August 2013 at 16:15
Anonymous said…
I wish I cn advice u mehn am nt cut out 4 dis...I dnt do luv mehn...luv doesn't exist in dis part of d world...its jst an excuse nd alabi 4 sex,,,as 4 me its all abt d money....if igbariam gals say they jst want u as a frnd...ashawo gals wil want evry bit of u soo far u hv d money....nwanne mak d money ist...ego dim no obi....(Stil dat masscom boy)
30 August 2013 at 16:23
Anonymous said…
my guy,your case and mine is almost d same.doh till now i have no girlfriend hia in skull,but i have moved on with my life.and so do i expect u to do.dia are oda gals waiting for u. from igwe agric
30 August 2013 at 16:34
cynthia soc said…
Dnt give up,dat she said she loves u as frds does not mean she can't still fall in love wit u.some pple fall in love slowly,am a gud example of that,I fell in love wit someone I jt see as an ordinally frd.jt continue being close to her it might end in luv.goodluck
30 August 2013 at 17:21
Oj said…
My dear juust face your studies and leave all these distractions called girls and love. If you love something so much leave it and if it comes back to you then its yours. Make yourself comfortable and rich and girls will be flocking around you to favours. I'm telling you from experience
30 August 2013 at 18:12
babyblinks said…
I dnt really kw wat 2 say u kw, cz z really hard 4 1 2 b rejected or rada turned down. 4 me, I tink u shd sgt abt d word RELATIONSHIP* 4 now.it might me 2 ur diasadvantage , bt also rememba dat wat hv disadvantage has advantage as well. Mayb ur God does nt want dat 4 u 4 now. Remba dis- biliv in God. Tnx
30 August 2013 at 19:33
Unknown said…
Baby blinks in suspecting that your star detest relationship at the moment. Hmm. Could that really be possible?
30 August 2013 at 19:44
Unknown said…
O.J nice suggestion. It a hard decision to take you know.
30 August 2013 at 19:45
Unknown said…
Congratulations Cynthia on your new relationship. Lolz
30 August 2013 at 19:47
Unknown said…
Funniest comment of all time. Lolz. I wan die
30 August 2013 at 19:51
Unknown said…
Thanks a lot.
30 August 2013 at 19:53
Sombody said…
Oga, I am a handsone guy oo. I no be woh woh
30 August 2013 at 19:54
Unknown said…
Senior man, I dey hail ni
30 August 2013 at 19:55
Unknown said…
You sound as though you are the person for him. Sorry. *winks*
30 August 2013 at 19:58
Unknown said…
Na true talk oooo. Hahahahahah. I don die
30 August 2013 at 19:59
Unknown said…
Igwe!!!! May your days be long. Don't worry, love will come your way soonest.
30 August 2013 at 20:00
Unique vivi masscomm said…
@ nelly and mr best thanks for d compliment but am flattered
31 August 2013 at 04:18
Anonymous said…
Dis wot I ve 4 u,wen ever u too keen or desperate 2 get sumtin,u loose it or dey run tar frm u. But relax nd dnt make finding luv ur priority nd they will cum.dats xperience talking. Also nxt tym wen u luv a gal,dnt let her tink u as a bro b4 u tell her ur mind. So my suggestion is take it lite. MC DEPRINCE
31 August 2013 at 07:14
Anonymous said…
1 tin u ve 2 learn is nt 2 trust girls, d truth is dat d girl u r chykin has a guy sumwere dat she gave her word. So my guy bone am joor. Girls plenty. Mr Ica
31 August 2013 at 09:13
Anonymous said…
1 tin u ve 2 learn is nt 2 trust girls, d truth is dat d girl u r chykin has a guy sumwere dat she gave her word. So my guy bone am joor. Girls plenty. Mr Ica
31 August 2013 at 09:18
babyblinks said…
@ chinelo, dats funny
31 August 2013 at 13:49
Unknown said…
You are a darling.
31 August 2013 at 15:43
Unknown said…
Mr. Ica, thats true. So you suggest he should stop giving up abi?
31 August 2013 at 15:48
Anonymous said…
Dear don't loose hope or do u nid to find nad book or do u nid to distrust gals wen u find ur own u wouldn't nid to b told k kip beign nice n gentle to gals u will get urs one day take kia
31 August 2013 at 18:48
Uju eco said…
He should meet Denze to teach him how to handle the situation;lol
1 September 2013 at 07:26
Babyoku said…
Please Denze shouldn't be involved on this one;i don't think he wil be interested in this issue...
1 September 2013 at 11:00
Anonymous said…
Heheheheheheheheheheheheh. Abi Denze City na wonanizer

KONJI MASTER said
1 September 2013 at 11:41
Anonymous said…
Maybe u be one of Denze's concubine. Shatap jor.
1 September 2013 at 11:43
Babyoku said…
Please i don't tink dis is not what we came for;Denze is not ur level,so stop looking for a name to spoil;make tour contributions
3 September 2013 at 08:16
dyzle said…
nigga ist u hav to finr awt if d gal z datin someone if she s then free her if shes nt gv her a lil space she mite be overwhelmd by ua proposition let her tink tinz tru and u uju wey dey kal denze u well at all? baby oku i c u jor
3 September 2013 at 13:26
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